I joined Lelanya's FS recently - I asked to join after I left my last FS because she was the first person who messaged me when I started playing and offered advice on what to do. It was a bit daunting at first being in a FS with so many high ranked players, but I was made to feel really welcome and I've learned a huge amount in the short time I've been there because there's been heaps of helpful chat. Timing was everything for me with the FA. I had just finished Orcs so was able to get rid of my portal and farms and had space to build 50 WS and some additional T1. The FA was a bit of a slog, but it was made more enjoyable doing it in a FS that was super organised and prepared. No, an achievement in a FA does not compare to achievements in life, but if you can't enjoy a game and some healthy competition why would you play this game or join a FS in the first place?
@Didal - is that what training pets is? I think it's about being in a group who support all members to grow and excel...