Ya. annoying loading time just to provide neighborly help.
I think having a new list of discovered players in the world map , just like in the list fellowship with shortcut icon, will help.
Just like in the fellowship, where there is a list of players name with quick shortcut to provide ancient wonder & neighborly help.
How I wish this same setting can be applied to the World Map, to all the discovered players in all the provinces. The current setting, I have to visit (and wait...